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Who Does Anger Benefit?
We cannot ignore or escape…Anger
When we are angry
we become agitated:
lose all inner peace and tranquility
bring agitation to others
increase the negativity around
So avoid thoughts and situations
that can cause anger.
Anger arises from:
An expectation not fulfilled
An ego hurt
While it is not possible to live without
expectation…
We can be free from the dependence on
other people for the fulfillment of desires.
How can we overcome anger?
First…be aware of it.
With awareness, in time anger will either
drop to a MINIMUM, or not rise at all.
NEXT become aware of the harm
caused by giving in to anger:
The effects of anger are even worse
than physical death.
The more we express anger the
more we suffer.
The angry person dies continually to
his higher Self.
ASK: “What do I want out of life?”
“Do I gain anything from anger?”
“Anger is a losing proposition, so
why keep it?
The most precious wealth we have is
peace of mind.
To protect this peace…
…we have to remain determined
to not part easily with this wealth.
The key to VICTORY is…REMAIN ALERT
and WIN OVER the exact moment when
ANGER RISES!
– – Swami Tejomayananda
The slide show is available at the following link:
http://www.speakingtree.in/slideshow/who-does-anger-benefit
Swamini Supriyanandaji’s visit to SINGAPORE
A Gurukula graduation at Chinmaya Prabha
Chinmaya Mission Houston Bala Vihar celebrated the Bala Vihar graduation for the class of 2017 on Saturday, May 20. This milestone marked the culmination of the journey for twenty four students who have attended Bala Vihar regularly every Sunday and for as long as 14 years. Consistent with the scriptural education they received at Chinmaya Mission, students experienced a sendoff that was decorous, solemn, and emotional – much like the millennia old graduation ceremonies celebrated at Gurukula in ancient India. Excitement about the next chapters in these students’ lives was tinged with sadness of their impending parting with their teachers – Bala Vihar, language, slokathon, orchestra, Gita chanting and choir – and the beloved Acaryas, Gaurang Nanavaty and Darshana Nanavaty.
After a sacred puja at Saumyakasi Sivalaya, the students offered their prostrations at the feet of Gurudev Swami Chinmayananda’s pratima at Chinmaya Smrti before the Vedic commencement began. Then, Acarya Gaurang Nanavaty inspired the audience with the evergreen and relevant scriptural commands, instructions, and advice from the Taittiriya Upanisad, a Sanskrit Vedic text composed almost 3000 years ago. As was the case then and now, the parting advice at a significant juncture like graduation was firm as much as it was heartfelt.
As the graduating students left the shelter of their teachers and parents to embark on the next chapter of their lives as young adults, they were reminded that their new freedom was a double edged sword that had to be wielded responsibly. This choicest advice was the essence of the spiritual values that the students had imbibed every Sunday from teachers who were carefully trained in the comprehensive K-12 Bala Vihar curriculum mindfully designed for over thirty years by our dear Acarya Darshana Nanavaty.
Using relevant examples, Acarya Gaurang Nanavaty – reminded students of the three tenets for living an ethical life with integrity – “speak the truth; stay within the bounds of dharma; and, given the constant buffeting of worldly temptations that seek to erode one’s values; reinforce convictions daily through the study of scriptures.”
Also, the students were reminded to not forget their responsibility toward supporting the institution where they were taught their values and also the spiritual institutions near where they lived – for making it to the top brings with it the responsibility to share the blessings with the generations that follow. Finally, the students were urged to honor their mother, father, and teachers – as they would God – as they served as God’s agents in protecting, providing, and guiding the students through childhood.
Following Acarya Gaurang Nanavaty’s memorable discourse, students were individually honored for their diverse and impressive accomplishments. It has been said that it takes a village to raise a child, and as the day closed with a benediction and prayers, there was the sense of celebration and gratitude for the grace of Gurudev and the dedicated acaryas Gaurang Nanavaty and Darshana Nanavaty for forming and sustaining this scriptural village for the children of Houston families for over a generation. With that memorable ceremony, the Bala Vihar Class of 2017 were poised to aim for a better standard of life along with the standard of living they were setting out to achieve in their educational journey ahead.
For more information on Chinmaya Mission Houston, Sri Saumyakasi Sivalaya and its activities visit www.chinmayahouston.org, www.saumyakasi.org or call temple 281 568 1690 or Jay Deshmukh 832 541 0059 or Bharati Sutaria 281-933-0233
SHAKE OFF THE SHACKLES Drop like…dislike
Q How do I create my world?
A The outer world of objects
being the same for all…
different PREFERENCES for them
reside in each mind.
If I get something I like…I am happy.
CONVERSELY, if I get something I don’t like…
I am unhappy…sad…angry.
When desire arises…
I begin to work for what I like.
If I get it…I enjoy it and
am possessive about it.
The greater the attraction for
the pleasure, the stronger the attachment.
With things I don’t like…
dislike slowly turns to hatred.
…Like…dislike become
hate…love and then control the mind.
We experience happiness…unhappiness
not because of objects…situations…people
BUT because of the relationships
we create with them.
Like becomes desire
Dislike turns to anger…
…Then other negative emotions flow…
These emotions constantly change…
RESULT It is difficult to:
…understand people.
…please either oneself or others.
FORTUNATELY…
Human beings have an innate capacity
to change…and herein lies their beauty.
TO EFFECT TRANSFORMATION…
Become aware of the likes and dislikes.
They can neither be wiped out completely
nor neutralised immediately…
SO convert them to become preferences.
SHAKE OFF THE SHACKLES
To now begin the journey
…for the HIGHER
…for the BETTER!
– – Swami Tejomayananda
The slide show is available at the following link:
Talks on Sri Ramcharitmanas by Swami Prakarshananda, CM Delhi.
BalaVihar Summer Camp at Chinmaya Mission Delhi
The Chinmaya Mission Delhi BalaVihar Summer Camp is a much awaited event in Delhi. This year was no different. Over 124 children, with parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles and siblings in town gathered in the Tapovan Hall. The Sevikas who were already present looked ready and eager to begin the proceedings. Mrs Saraswati Rajgopal –Sarasa Amma to all, was as busy as a bee trying to reach out to all corners of the hall at the same time. Swami Prakarshananda of Chinmaya Mission Delhi arrived at the dot of 9.30 accompanied by Anand Sharmaji – the favourite Anand Bhaiya !! After lighting the inaugural lamp Swamiji began with taking the Lords Name and invoked Pujya Gurudevs’s Blessings. A short ice breaking session for the new comers and all were ready to roll. It is going to be great fun for the next three weeks.
HELP CHILDREN FIND THEIR VOCATION
From BABIES we do not have any expectations.
We are happy to just watch them grow at their own pace.
BUT as they mature, things change.
Children …develop their own thoughts and feelings.
Parents often
…with increasing expectations and demands
…without due consideration for their needs
…impose on them THEIR opinions of what is correct
…Then problems surface!!
This does not mean that we should not guide the child.
HOWEVER, when we observe them
We will notice certain tendencies and aptitudes emerge.
We should then allow them to express their unique talents.
Acceptance means awareness of the child’s individuality…
…the readiness to encourage growth in the
…direction of his/her aptitude.
Expectation should be to see children succeed
in the field of their choice. It could be in:
arts
science
some unheard of course.
Their success then…becomes a source of joy
for ALL…children and parents!!!
Expectation is misplaced if we want them to be
…different from their NATURAL SELF.
Once a boy asked me:
“My parents want me to be a professional,
…an engineer or a doctor.
But I want to be an artist, a poet or a writer.
I am told…I should obey my parents,
but my heart is not in it.
WHAT SHOULD I DO?”
My answer: “First be sure of your own aspirations.
Be CERTAIN you are not revolting or opposing their ideas
just because they are your parents.
When you are clear about your innate talent
…KNOW what you want to do, EXPRESS IT IN ACTION.
Your parents will see your aptitude and abilities
and give you the OPPORTUNITY to do what you really want.”
ON THE FLIP SIDE:
If parents oppose whatever their children want to do,
it will lead to NOTHING BUT CONFLICT.
BUT if you just allow their personality and talents to grow,
…their respect for you will also grow.
They will THEN either succeed in what they want to do
or know that it is not their true vocation.
– – Swami Tejomayananda